I offer support for having difficult conversations, resolving conflicts and coming to agreements. I offer specific communication techniques for couples and groups to build more satisfying and harmonious relationships.

 

I also help individuals prepare for their end of the conversation in situations where the other party isn't ready to mediate.

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In the mediation session:

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• Each person is helped to clarify and express what is important to them.  

• I carefully translate each person's statement into expressions that retain impact but are free of judgment and blame, so each party can more easily hear each other.

• The listener is then coached to hear and receive the other person's concerns.  

• Parties move back and forth between speaking and listening.

• As the conversation progresses, goodwill and potential solutions emerge.  

• As this point, I help you design mutually agreeable solutions that are satisfying and doable for everyone.  

 

The mediation begins with a half hour pre-mediation phone call with each party separately. This allows each party to share their concerns with me, and to ask any questions about the mediation process.

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Throughout the entire meditation, I hold all parties with care so that each party is heard. This process is honoring and respectful to all involved.